Trauma Perspective and Individual Capacity - MW

I remember Jocko and Chris talk about how everyone is fighting their own battles and that a solider who just witnessed his friend get blow up by a IED will mark that as the most traumatic moment in his life where as a corporate worker might say his wife divorcing him and taking the kids is the most traumatic moment of his life.
Is comparing the two side by side and saying that the solider has a legitimate trauma where as the corporate worker has a less legit trauma just perception of fairness? that one must be equal to the logical factors at play (in this case life or death isn't as bad as a marital seperation)?

I Would Buy Me A Drink - MW

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